Sunday, November 11, 2007 @ Sunday, November 11, 2007
Jus have a debate with my mum just now
Our quarrel go like this
"I heard there are lesbians working at your job site."
"Yes, is there any problem?"
"Can change your job, i dun wanna see u mixed around with them.."
"Mum, might as well ask me to quit school, my school also got such people...and quite lot lo"
"School different, i want you to change your job..."
"Mum, can you tell me what is wrong about them being a lesbian?"
"They are not normal, people will talk behind you and think of you as one if they see you mixing around with bungs.."
"What is the meaning of normal?"
"Dun talk back..."
"Mum, are you afraid of them?"
"I do not fear them.."
"Then why are you asking me ot quit my job..they are good people, it just that they only prefered the same sex...is that a mistake...?"
"It's abnormal, can you see that? My dear daughter..i afraid they will influence you..."
"What is the meaning of abnormal?"
"I say, dun talk back..."
"Mum, try calling the police to say there is some les working at my work place...if you succeeded in putting them in jail, then i will quit my job as my colleages are not there anymore..."
Frankly speaking, I admit i am a homopohobic last time due to my dear parent teaching on what is deem as normal and abnormal...
Define normal and abnormal to me...
And
Not all lesbian like every gurls that walked past them...
Like any others heterosexual person, they too had expectation..
And mind you, their patners are damn pretty and attractive..
Not cause they can't find a guy, den they turn to gurl..
This is a free world..one got a choice...
And in my own opinions....
gurl tend to be caring, sensitive and more loving than the males...
That is what i see...
I am not saying males are not caring or blah... blah... blah..
some are sweet..and kind..
But compare to gurl, quite a long way to go bah...
--xoxo,
Imaginarist
Imaginarist
