Wednesday, June 25, 2008 @ Wednesday, June 25, 2008
- Try reading more on Male hugging on this website...
http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/lifestyle/231855_guyhugs.html
Some paragraph which i find it interesting..XDDDDDDDD
The male hug is complicating everything.
Men accustomed to the automatic hand clasp accompanied with a brisk up-and-down pump at dinner parties and college reunions, now must preface their greetings or goodbyes with intricate and split-second calculations based on body language, length of friendship and other factors.
Only men engage in the combination handshake-hug, says Floyd.
- "Men often do it with their handshake in between them, so there is a physical barrier. The third thing is the aggressive patting on the back that comes along with it, which is a very combative gesture. It's a way for men to say, 'I have positive feelings for you, but let's show them in a way that is masculine and gender validating.' All of those things -- distance, a barrier, the combative movement -- are all stereotypically masculine ways of behaving."
What about women??
--xoxo,
Imaginarist
Imaginarist