Monday, November 03, 2008 @ Monday, November 03, 2008

This is what i make when i am having my free time at work..

for her...lol

She did make some modification after tat...

Her jie zuo...LOL

nice blending of colours..

hahaha

For now, i will focus on my schoolwork, writing, piano n her...

Got no time for hatred and loathing..

And ya, I just went for a short tour to stomp today...

There is this forum on teacher-student relationship...

I really pity the poor gurl..

tat's her woeful story

Teacher-Student Relationship

I fell hard for a teacher. And it was mutual.I mean, we got really
close after talking regularly for a few months, and he's the sweetest guy
I've ever met. We started our conversations right after a guy broke up with
me... and it's crazy because of the contrast between their personalities,
which highlighted his good points even more.

Before we started talking I already found him attractive, and I was amazed when he slowly unravelled his real sentimental self, which is so far from his hardy facade.

And the whole thing kind of blew up and became a talk in school...
which got us into a whole lot of trouble... But somehow we managed to get
out of it. But now we're not allowed to even talk about each other, more so
talk to each other. ):

Come to think of this...

I used to admire one of my geography male teacher in my school..

Frankly speaking, i really hate reading map n cramming a whole lots of earth information in my minds.. coz i just find it a simply waste of time..

But when he first come to teach my class, I love the way he taught the class with his charm and suave...

Beside tat, he is a doting husband to his wife...one of the few reason which i consider him as a GOOD teacher...

There is no romance feeling involved as I write that above paragraph...

Just like a normal student writing out the good point of a favourite teacher..

But my secondary school so far had not blasted out this kind of scandalous news...

But I wun be surprised if the teacher is single, young, cute and handsome...coz tat's wat make the poor gurl fall in luv with him in the first place..

But well..This kind of teacher-student relationship is still kinda unacceptable in singapore

(It holds the same regard to any lbgt relationship..)

Matured men likes Women .... not Girls.

While it's true that your teachers are Matured and Wise compared to the boys
in your class ... are they truly Matured and Wise compared to their peers?
Matured adults won't fall for girls ... I am a thinking adult, and I have
emotional needs as an adult that girls can never provide. Relationships has to
be mutually giving and sustaining. You know your teacher can give you good
advise ... but can you give good advise to your teacher?

Life is not a fairy-tale whereby you can sustain a relationship simply by
having that "feeling of Love" for each other. There are many practical things to
consider being together ... and i don't advise you to have a long-term
relationship at this point. It would be good for you to go for dates and explore
your options, but don't let the guys do anything else to you.

If your teacher is truly matured, he will not lead you on. He is merely being
matured in your perspective as a student. But not in the perspective of a
working adult.

I know it's not easy being a teenager (I was once there), but my advise to
you is ... don't grow up too fast ... enjoy your simplicity as a student and
just concentrate on your studies and pursue your interests. Why make life so
complicated by over-thinking?

Ya....so for thoes gurl out there which is hopelessly in love with your teacher...

Wrench urself out of it...coz it can nv get u anywhere except more heartache and tears..

Ya, i noe he is mature, smart and stable with a good financial background...

But falling in love with teacher in an unwritten rule in school..

If u wan mature guys, find outside your school...others school male teachers also can..but not ur own school...coz it will only make your life misearable when the whole scandal is being leaked out..

They will be more than happy to embrace you into their arms..

^^

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