The life 20 year old Mum and The Single parent mum
Friday, January 08, 2010 @ Friday, January 08, 2010
I just discovered a few of my frenzs actually quit school to get married and have baby...
O.O
Kudos to them....Such an act of bavery and selfless sacrified to their unborn baby...
And they are all from the age of 18-21 years old...
Their husband is around those age...or too busy to take care of the baby...
http://www.youth.sg/content/view/2661/29/1/3/
Read this...
Elle's husband is with the Navy, and his physically demanding job takes him
away from the family most of the time. So, when it comes to babycare, Elle is
counted on to be independent - other family members are all working. She was
taking a course in real estate management at a private school before she quit.
I wonder how can she did it?
Home alone with crying kid..ur husband is out at the sea...and u have just a piece of O level cert...ur frenzs around ur age is bz with their schools, projects, outings, parties and tons of clubbing...
You are just barely 20...tied down with a kid...
Wow..give her 2 big claps...
The other article I jus found was abt Single mother...
http://leelilian.blogspot.com/2008/09/my-opinion-on-single-mums-single.html
I had send emails to MOM, MCYS, IRAS and HDB respectively and confirmed that all mothers, except unmarried single mothers, in Singapore, are entitled to the following:
-3 months of maternity leave (1st 2 months funded by employer and the 3rd month by MOM)Unwed mums are not entitled to the 3rd month unless they marry within 6 months to the man who fathered the child (amended in 2007).
-Baby Bonus which consists of cash gift as well as topping up of CDA account with cash.
-Income Tax Relief such as; parenthood tax relief, foreign maid levy relief, grandparents care giver relief and working mothers’ child relief-The eligibility for new HDB flats (a single below age 35 and a child below age 21 do not form a family nucleus)
The question is why are they left out from these entitlements?
Singapore should not close one eyes towards single mother anymore...
If u wan a proper family nuclues..educate the guys first...
Dun push the blame to woman by saying tat o...premarital sex is wrong..u gurls should not done it in the first place..nw consequences is up to u face it...
WT*....
Government, times change le...give the single mother a break...
They love their child, so they give birth to them...
And isn't u guy who been complaining tat S'pore population is gig down down down....
Now got babies...still dun allow all those benefit for the mother for their contribution to the S'pore population...
If u can, try to force those married couple who died died also dun wan any kids to procreate...
They r the ppl who u guys should be pointing finger at...not those single mother...
tsk...
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